I miss you so much! I am thankful for having you in my life. Reading all of the kind words about you makes me feel so good, while missing you hurts so much. It just isn't the same without you. You have left a hole in my heart that is so big, it just aches. You are an angel with wings now. You were always my angel. Keep looking out for us down here. Your sister and I and all of your friends and teammates love and miss you. Good night Murphia. Love, Daddy.
in loving memory / Laura Snyder (c.a.p. member )Read >>
in loving memory / Laura Snyder (c.a.p. member )
becky, hey i really never met you but i have heard so much about you and how wonderful you were to the squadron and to your friends. but i really did wish i met because you sounded like a very nice person to be around and everything, everything i heard bout you from the squadron made you to me a role model.
you will be in my prays and thoughts all the time.
rest in peace becky.
its been a while / Josh Taylor (friend)
wow its been about 9 months since u left. its funny how u always seem to creep into my thoughts still on a daily basis. i miss u girl. loosing u was the hardest thing iv ever gone through. i wish i could have seen you one last time before u left for ur trip. shroeders class wasnt nearly as enjoyible after u left. we made sure no one sat in ur seat though. good bye dear friend. ill never forget u.
Just missing you / Kara Smith
I keep thinking about you. I miss you so much Becky. Thought about you before what should have been First Aid weekend. I will never forget that. Nothing's the same. I promise Becky I won't ever forget you. I'll watch out for your mom and for Terry. I love you. I miss you so much. I think about you all the time. Watch over those in need, there are so many. Close
REMEMBER ME AND I NEVER WILL BE GONE / Argia M. Caines (A Mom of another Angel )
Dear Diane and Family:
What a beautiful young woman. I am honored to be able to share some of Becky's precious life. You have done a beautiful job and I know the heart wrenching work it took to do this. May her star shine on forever. Becky will be remembered by me Argia, Mother of my beautiful Raphael My healer, My Angel, My baby Close
Missing you / Justin Kursh (CAP)
Becky..... Today I went to another funeral. It was for a cadet here at the Citadel. There were so many events which occured today that were the same on your day. It's getting to me Becky. I know that you are looking down on me and keeping me and J.J. in line. We need it.
Also, this summer school, I know you were there. The squadron I was with, included Jon Blumenfield, J.J., Zach, and me. We were out on the hike, at Pulpit. A massive storm was coming in, lightening, thunder, 3 cells stacked on top of each other. As I said, a massive storm. Then, no rain came. The storm moved away from us. We were tired, weak, and hungry. I know you pushed the storm away from us. You were watching out for us. As I write this, the tears are welling up in my eyes. I miss you Becky. I will always miss you.
Justin Kursh Delta Company Citadel class of 2008 Close
love you babe / Shaunna Melnick (good friend )Read >>
love you babe / Shaunna Melnick (good friend )
dear becky marseglia....my love, i miss you deeply, think about you everyday. school is back and i keep remembering our 10th grade english class together with mrs. wu. she hated us so much hahaha.we use to sit in the back of our rows and just laugh at all the other kids doing their work. but anyway, i just want you to know that i need you still. the feeling of you watching over me keeps me pushing each and everyday. you are my everything and i hope you know that i would not be the same without you in my life. i am sry for the pain you felt. love you babe. be back soon.
AN ANGEL HAS LEFT US TODAY IT IS UP IN HEAVEN WITH GOD THAT SHE SHALL STAY. HOW QUICKLY HE CAME TO GET HER, WE HAD NO TIME TO PREPARE, FOR THE HURT AND THE LOSS THAT WE NOW MUST ALL BEAR.
HOW WE WILL WE MISS HER EVER-PRESENT SMILE. HOW WE WILL MISS HER INDIVIDUAL SENSE OF STYLE. SHE WAS A PRECIOUS GIFT, GIVEN TO US FOR ONLY A LITTLE WHILE.
THE PLAN FOR HER LIFE WAS WRITTEN BEFORE SHE WAS BORN. NOW FOLLOWING HIS PLAN FOR HER IS WHERE WE ARE TORN. WE MUST BELIEVE THAT SHE IS NOT GONE, BUT JUST AWAY. WE KNOW WE WILL SEE HER AGAIN, BUT FOR NOW WE MUST STAY.
SHE WAS HERE TO TEACH US LESSONS NOT LEARNED IN A BOOK. IT IS IN OUR HEARTS FOR THE ANSWERS WE MUST LOOK. WE MUST CHERISH EACH OTHER WHILE WE CAN, FOR IT IS NOT KNOWN TO US HIS DIVINE PLAN.
HOW PRECIOUS A HUG, A GIGGLE AND A KISS, THESE ARE THE THINGS WE WILL MOST MISS. AS OUR HEARTS ACHE FOR HER, WE MUST KNOW SHE IS NOT FAR. WE'LL SEE HER IN THE DARKNIGHT SKY, AS THE BRIGHTEST STAR.
WE WILL FEEL HER TOUCH IN THE RAIN FROM THE SKY THAT WASHES AWAY THE TEARS THAT WE CRY. WE WILL FEEL HER EMBRACE IN THE WARM SUMMER SUN. WE WILL HEAR HER LAUGHTER WHEN, ONCE AGAIN, WE HAVE FUN.
SHE WILL ALWAYS BE WITH US, IF WE ARE QUIET ENOUGH TO HEAR, THE SWISH OF AN ANGEL’S WINGS FLAPPING IN OUR EARS!
I AM HONORED / J. (family friend )
I write this note better than 6 months after you left this earth. I sit in awe as I listen to your peers speak of school, social activities and all else acquainted with being 17. Your name is brought up in conversation by them when they speak of past times. What is so unusual is that they speak as if you are still with them. I truly believe your spirit lives in each one of them and that you guide them each day.I pay tribute today to Becky. She must have been one heck of a FRIEND!! I am honored to say my daughter was her friend. Diane, Katy, Mark, Mr and Mrs Ellis and Mary Ann: You are first in my prayers every night and at church every Sunday.Bless all of you, and remember someday you will join that angel who awaits you. Till that time try and enjoy life for it is what God and Becky would both want. Close
In our hearts forever.. / Olivia Tattory (Fellow Rugger & Friend )
I often think about Becky and the impact she's had on my life. With an occasional appearance in my dreams, I thank God for reminding me that Becky is watching over me. Becky had left her Army Rugby hat in my car on the way to East Stroudsburg, after playing phone tag for a couple of months I gave up trying to give it back, I liked it anyway. I feel as though I was meant to keep it, and I thank Becky for leaving it with me. I love the memories I had with Becky, and just want to let Murph and Mrs. Marseglia how truly great Becky really was. And once again, I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. Love, Olivia Close
The New Tattoo / Randi Jefferys (Family Friend )Read >>
The New Tattoo / Randi Jefferys (Family Friend )
Diane, I would just like to say that the tattoo you recently got on your ankle is so precious. i think it is very special that you have your girls initials, but what makes it so much more special, is Becky's handwriting. I hope that this helps ease some of the pain, and takes you another step towards trying to ease the pain of your unbearable loss. I want to let you know that i still think about you and your girls everyday, and don't forget that if either you or Katie ever need anything, we are and will always be there for you, no matter what. Sending my love--Randi Close
after a long trip / Dan (Friend and CAP )
Hey, i just got back from Hawa'ii on wed and im still sufering from jet lag. I remember when i first booked the trip in jan and then down in FL we were talking about it. well just to let you know i couldn't sleep the whole way to or from hawa'ii, but i did do alot of thinking espically about you and CAP. While i was writing stuff down you came to my mind and i was thinking that the meetings on Tuesday nights still aren't the same, im just waiting for you to come in wearing half a uniform and having your hair down and all of your jewerly on and not wearing boots but high heals. lol. i remember while i was at classes on tues nights during the 05 spring semester i was trying to find a replacement for me after the summer and all i wanted to do want get you to be CC. i wish you were still here espically because you made CAP that much better, it will never be the same without you Becky. Dan Close
You are Beautiful Becky! / Connie Lamb (Mom's Friend )
Becky, you are so beautiful. I know you and my Brittney are buddies now and are taking care of each other. Please remember, how much we love you and miss you and we will think about you, and talk about you, and be proud to be your mother's forever. Keep the signs coming!
Thinking of you!! / Lisa Bohlin (POS mom )
Diane, Your Becky is a beautiful girl!! I just want you to know that you have helped me with all this too, just in the last few hours!! (7/20/05) Know that Becky is proud of you for honoring her memory in this beautiful web site!! Thanks for sharing her with me!! Please visit my Nate at http://natesmemory.tripod.com/love4nate/ My favorite quote is this: "We have discovered that the death of someone we love is not the greatest loss.........The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we go on living" Take care my friend!! Lisa-mom of Nate 2/15/83-4/13/04 Hanging Close
dreams.../ Shaunna Melnick (good friend )
becky... i had a dream about you last night. we were at like a park and it was a talent show. and patty and eve and everyone were dancing and performing and all the sudden you jumped out of nowhere and started dancing and singing with them. and it was after you passed away and everyone was wondering wat was going on. and then you told everyone that you faked your death because you just needed to take a vacation and get some time away. and you were back into my life. i never remembered being so happy. and then i woke up and realized that you were still gone and i cried. i miss you so much my darling. i want you here with me again. its so hard to be so sad but then so happy. because everytime i think about you i smile. i keep fighting and pushing everyday because of you becky. because i know thats what you would be telling me to do everyday. thanks for continuing to look over me, my angel. i love you more than words can express
p.s. i would give anything for dreams to come true Close
Summer School is here / Kara (Friend)
Getting ready for Hawk is hard. I'm in Alpha this year. It's not going to be easy knowing that I'm doing the same thing that you did just one year ago. I know you'll be with us for the whole school. You really don't get a choice do you? I love you so much. I miss you like crazy. Watch over us on the mountain this week and take care of Jody in England. Close